Rejection is a scary thing (read Dealing With Rejection HERE and How To Reject A Guy HERE). We all know it.We've all felt it. But, that's one of the reasons why the guy for you will really stand out. He may be completely terrified at the possibility of you saying, "no", but he goes for it anyway. You want a guy who isn't passive, but active. You don't want a guy who's "too shy" to ever make a move. You want someone who knows how to be a leader and a pursuer, so that you don't have to do every single thing in the relationship.
You deserve someone who simply cannot stand not knowing what life could be with you by his side.
Someone who's willing to face rejection and stay in the "friendzone" for as long as you need him to be there.
Keep in mind that a lot of guys who aren't up to any good can ask you out with ease as well. They can tell you, "I like you as more than a friend" without breaking a sweat. So, this isn't the only obstacle your dream guy will have to face. If you're curious about the others, check out Your #1 Deal Breaker (click HERE).
Love,
Zabrinah
I really like this post. I agree that if a guy likes a girl and he believes that she is the "one" for him he will find the courage to ask her out. Yes, he will be willing to face rejection than to live without the girl of his dream. I believe that girls/women have to make a decision to stop thinking that guys are interested in them when the guy did not verbalize that he is interested in a relationship. Even if is body language seems to tell us that he likes us do not take these signs seriously until he said, "I really like/love you and would like to go out on a date with you." Even when he tells you the aforementioned statement you must not lower your values for anyone. When his behavior shows you who he is you must believe him. Remember that you cannot change anyone. You and you alone must decide if you want a relationship with this person. I have seen too many women with broken hearts that are based on only body language and the relationship that they have in their head. Ladies it is time for us to think with our brains and not our hearts, especially at the beginning of a relationship with a guy.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment Joy! :)
ReplyDeleteBody language is one of the most deceiving things out there! You really have to wait for his words to match his actions!
~Z