Not Sure If You Like Him?

How can you be 100% sure that you like a guy? Many times on this blog, I've told you that you cannot rely on mere eye contact or a brush of a shoulder as indicators of a guy liking you. Read Signs He Likes You (click ME) for more clarification on that matter. So, now you know that he does. But, how do you know if you like him back?

Question: Do I like him?

Answer: You know that you like a guy when you feel like telling him how you feel ... to his face.

Not when you tell your friends he's cute. Not when you tell your parents that he's interested in you. But, when you really, really, really, really, really, really want to tell him. That's how you know.

It will be this powerful ache: your heart, mind, and soul, begging your mouth to form the words, "I like you as more than a friend." If you really want him to know how you feel, if the phrase is always fighting to push past your lips in order to reach his ears--then you know that you like this guy. Oh yes, you are deep "in like" with him.

Logical follow-up question:
Should you act on these feelings? Should you tell him? 

Well, it really depends. Please read:

• The Pact (click ME)
• Dominant Energy (click ME)
• Your #1 Deal Breaker (click ME) 
• Finding The Courage To Tell Him (click ME)

These posts definitely cover the How Not To Fall In Love policies on telling a guy how you feel.

Love,

Zabrinah