7 Signs Your Relationship Is Over

How do you know when to give up and let it go? 

The Signs

1. He asks for intimacy and you don't want to give it to him anymore. Usually in this scenario, out of "obligation" (that you feel), you give him whatever he wants. In fact, you find that you're doing a lot of things out of mindless obligation ... because you've done it in the past, you feel like you have to now.

2. You've lost crucial elements of yourself by being with him. You barely recognize the person you see in the mirror ... and this makes you feel conflicted.

3. One of you is frequently trying to change the other. This is not to be misconstrued with offering suggestions or constructive criticism. I'm talking about trying to change fundamental aspects of the other person.

4. Cheating occurs in any of the four states: emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally. This one is more a bright, huge, super red, warning flag. We have to guard our hearts from all four in order to sustain a healthy relationship (click ME).

5. No positive or hopeful talk of the future. If one of you brings it up, either the subject quickly changes or a fight ensues.

6. The People Test. If you told all of your friends and family that you're breaking up with him, not one of them would be surprised ... or sad.

7. A complete lack of trust. Due to: abuse, other awful, negative experiences, or pure, utter distrust when it comes to the important issues of a relationship.

Love,

Zabrinah