Building Your Confidence

I’m not going to tell you to look in the mirror and tell yourself that you’re beautiful. Though, if that works, do it. However, I will tell you to pay special attention to your confidence level when you like a guy and when you don’t.

You need to discover where the source of your affections is coming from. Not in the context of outside circumstances, but internally. Is your crush coming from a place of insecurity? Let me phrase it this way: do you think you’re the only person not in a relationship?



You need to change your perspective in order to build your confidence. Work on the inside.



Lessen the exposure to situations that include him. If he’s completely unavoidable—an ingrained element of your daily routine—you need to spend more time doing things that make you happy and naturally build your confidence. He should not be the highlight of your day. You should always have something in your life that is more fascinating than him.



One tip that will build your confidence when it’s down: avoid people that make you feel uncomfortable with yourself. You do not have time for individuals who don’t accept you and make you feel that way.



It’s cliché, but you’ve got to remember that loving yourself must always come before loving any guy. You don’t need to be in a relationship to be happy with yourself. A guy that you don’t want to fall in love with won’t control the ups and downs of your day.

Don’t know what to do without him? Focus wholly on accomplishing your dreams and securing a successful future.



You are unique. Seriously. Instead of daydreaming, go out there and work for your dreams to come true. Helping others when you can will also be a great boost for your self-esteem.

Love,


Zabrinah